A sort of wise man once told me a story. Someone ask him is it fair that god create people with fate to be poor and rich, good and bad and later they will be thrown to Hell and other to heaven. The sort of wise man than think a while and said god did not give your fate. He gave you path and options. You choose it and some declare it as your fate. The the sort of wise man ask back. Is it fair that you had chosen your own path and option then put the fault on fate and god. It is not a fate until it is already done. You had the will to change and pick the option. This is anarchism in islamic view. You should not let other pick your path just for the sake of "dah banyak makan garam" or he see the bigger picture. Do not be held by the system to constraint your life. What people before you do and fail should be taken notice but it's should not scare you to do and make a better of its Accept it as your fate, regret it when thing goes wrong that is the biggest mistake. Turn your life start living your impian and kemahuan.
