McDonald

McDonald one my first choice for fast food. It's not due to trends or sign of wealth. Yes, some people consider eating at McD as sign of wealth.

Looking at McD will take me back to all my childhood memories. I still remember when my father use to work in KL and we are staying in Malacca. Every friday afternoon my father will drive back and spend the weekend with us. Usually our weekend rewards will be going to Jaya Jusco to buy toys, Lego and eating out. Such a good times.

Being a father now, I understand something we are not always financially well. The cheat code to treat your kids with both of this is Happy Meal. You got food and meal for less than 10 ringgit. I remember we going to McD at Fajar. Last time we when there was in 2016 a few week before that that McD was close forever. The old toys was good and well though for. It's bad that i never take good care of them. People are paying fortune for them now.

Mcd, childhood, my father.

SELAMAT HARI ABAH

21 JUNE 2020 - FATHER'S DAY

23 JUNE 2020 - ABAH 56 BIRTHDAY

Abah even you are not with us with me anymore. Day by day i learn more of fatherhood. Looking back what you did had guided me. Irony, when i was growing up also even you are by my side, it's hard for me to understand the life lesson you are showing me. Only when i grow older and i understand it. Now, it's also the same.

Growing up i am afraid and fear of your wrath when i want to do something wrong. Even in MRSM, i directly told the warden, he can punish me anything he want but don't call my parent. I known how you don't like this kind of thing. When i was 13 - 15 years old, there was the phase i'm hating you. I felt that you do not understand me. You are not supporting me unlike other parent. We were enemy. With the stubbornness i am, i fight against everything not willing to beg you for help. You only given me 10 or 15 ringgit every week. I save on lunch, cycle to school and lie to the bus conductor to save 20 sen. That time, even to buy 10 sen, i can't afford. That start the determination, anyhow i need to go to better school.

Older i understand and glad i learned all this. It shape me to who i am. Maybe being an Abah, you need to be hated to be afraid of, to be fierce by your child. Then, you can shape your child. It's better to be hated now then hating later what your child had turn out to be.

Thank abah for shaping me and being my idol.

Mohamed Radzi Ahmad. 

POSITION

Their is a case where position is not important everyone shall be treated equal. And there is a situation where position need to be there. It is not for the display of who's on top and bottom. It shall reflect on the function of each member of the group. Simply family. Each call name have their own function. Mom, Dad and the children.

Dad, the one who provide for the family. Provide protection, food, money. To ensure everyone live well, have a roof above, children having good education, grow up the child in fatherly manner. Without all this you will be a useless father. But people should understand some people will have limitation. Anyhow each one should at least provide his best effort to function.

Similar, a child often view as the weakest of the family. The weak will grow strong if nurture in the right way. During the child phase, he should put his best effort to learn for he need to be function in his future. Take care of his parent, siblings and protect the family legacy. A weak child will bring shame to the family legacy and grow a weaker child. By generation, there is nothing to be proud of the family. Do not look down on your function child.

Does this position need to be specified? A father might not be a man. For a single mother, She the one who provide for the family, ensure there is food on the table. Then, she is the father and mother of the family.

Position are same as respect, it need to there and put to use.

Benda Boleh Nampak

One of the reason aku suka dengar lokal radio kerajaan, akan ada orang orang yang call and berikan pendapat diorang mengenai certain issue. Dari situ aku boleh gauge people state of mind and their view on certain issue. Better dari radio swasta yang syok sendiri dan asyik pasang iklan.

Ada sorang pak cik ni call cerita pasal harta pusaka. His family was unfairly denied the right to their grand mother hereditary. Tapi at end of the day family yang dapat tu tak senang mana pun. One of the thing that i felt so grateful was Allah always show me the outcome of the certain things through other people example. So, i would not end up making the certain mistake.

Nak kan harta pusaka tu biasa. Bila nampak benda mudah orang akan gelap mata. Then, tambah dengan dengki lagila nak deny hak orang lain. Biasanya ada dua cara orang akan buat. Satu guna kekerasan terang terang rampas hak orang lain. Semua orang nampak. Dua dengan acah acah baik. Konon gunakan duit tu untuk kebaikan. Supaya semua dapat benefit tapi senyap2 diri sendiri makan. Through family bisnes ke buat benda benda amal ke. Last last semua masuk angin keluar asap dia je kenyang. Yang ini yang paling bahaya.

This kind of scam la aku nak elak family aku terlibat. This scam also become a joke in our family. We could laugh all day talking about this. Abah pernah cakap duit tergolek ni tak tahan lama. Easy come easy go. Sebab tu la duit menipu mencuri macam ni tak kan senang.

Apa yang abah tinggalkan aku tak ambil apa apa. Bagi aku, that money won't be there if abah tak meninggal. What i inherited is his company business. Aku gerakan sebab tak nak the thing come to waste. Kalau tak gerakan bye bye la. Thinking how hard abah nak maintankan company so aku take the responsibility. Sometime its a burden. I lost a lot of time. Apa profit yang ada aku simpan dalam account untuk future. We start with 5K je sebab duit company masuk ke faraid. Aku ambil apa yang aku rasa aku patut dapat sebagai gaji bila projek siap. Modal and tenaga semua dari aku.

Duit yang direct terus masuk dekat aku hanya dari KWSP and Tabung Haji abah. KWSP aku gunakan untuk aqiqah Aaron. Tabung Haji adalah dalam akaun aku. Aku transfer sikit masuk akaun Aaron. Then untuk adik-adik dia. Atleast they got something from their to'ki.

In conclusion, earn everything that you want. Do not hope for this kind of wealth.

SEMUA NAK BERCAKAP - KAWIN

Beberapa hari lepas ada seorang ni post cara-cara seorang isteri nak siapkan makanan untuk suami dia makan selepas balik kerja dalam masa yang sama menjaga anak. Kebanyakan comment semua menghentam suami. Suami macam raja. suami tak buat kerja.

Then, ada yang post jangan kawin dengan lelaki macam tu lelaki lembu. Zaman ni dah tak patut ada lelaki macam tu. Then ada yang post lelaki sepatutnya macam mana. Tolong Isteri Etc.

Mula mula sekali, ada ke sesiapa yang kawin kena paksa? Semua keputusan sendiri yang nak kawin. Nak kawin dengan lembu ke dengan anjing ke. Masa sebelum kawin ada tak kau fikir, bakal suami kau rajin ke malas ?

Jadi selepas kau buat keputusan untuk kawin, what do you expect ? apa function kau kawin dan apa function kau dalam perkahwinan?

Kalau satu keluarga tu duduk rumah macam nak roboh, anak anak tak ada duit nak pergi sekolah, kereta buruk, apa masyarakat akan cakap? Apala isteri mamat ni tak guna. Tak boleh sara keluarga. Tak kan. Dah tentu yang salah suami.

Then, kalau anak anak makan benda tak senonoh, baju kotor apa masyarakat akan cakap. Apa benda la kiah ni rumah tak terjaga, anak tak makan. Mamat ni tak pandai ajar bini dia ke. Mamat juga yang kena kan.

Setiap orang ada peranan dia sendiri dalam rumah tangga. I rarely don't give a fuck about all this FB post but looking at all those comment, you can judge what are our society state of mind. Moreover, guna agama cakap apa tugas suami terhadap isteri, sediakan itu ini. Bila pasal diri sendiri pandai tunggang agama.

Isteri buat tugas seorang isteri. Suami yang sayangkan isteri dia akan tolong meringankan. Ada masa orang bila nak cakap apa dia rasa dia lupa kedudukan dia. Kau nak kondem orang adakah anak kau, rumah kau all in order. Kau nak cakap kau penat kerja, ada ke kau angkat batu atas belakang. Habis kuat pagi sembang, taip sikit, lunch, taip sikit petang sembang. How much did you contribute to the house ?

With this kind of mind set, what kind of wife and husband would the future have and what kind of kids would they produce.